Business Owner Anxiety: When the List Plays in Your Head at Night
“The list is a mile long, and it plays in my head at night.” She said it almost casually, the way you mention weather. But we both knew what she was describing: the 2am replay. The chest that won’t quite loosen. The constant hum of everything undone,...
How to Set Boundaries With Clients When You Hate Confrontation
“I avoid confrontation... at the detriment to my business.” The woman who said this to me is warm, generous, and excellent at her work — and those exact qualities were costing her thousands of dollars a year. The scope that quietly doubled. The invoice she...
Money Mindset Blocks: For Women Who Are Done Playing Small
“I want money for my gifts. This is about owning my worth — getting paid what I’m worth.” When a client says something like that in our first conversation, I know two things immediately: she is very good at what she does, and somewhere between...
The Hiring Catch-22: You Can’t Afford Help, and You Can’t Grow Without It
“I can’t make more money unless I hire somebody. And I can’t see how to afford somebody. So I’m stuck.” A client said this to me with the precision of a woman who had run the numbers a hundred times. She wasn’t wrong about either...
“I’m the Bottleneck”: Small Business Owner Burnout and Why Your Business Can’t Grow Past You
“There’s a constant hum of things not getting done — and worry that somebody’s going to land in my inbox wondering what’s going on.” If you run a business, you may know that hum personally. It’s the soundtrack of being the...
Reinventing Yourself at 50: What Nobody Tells Accomplished Women
“Life is way too short. I’m working very hard — and I’d like to enjoy more of my life.” That sentence came from an accomplished woman with a full calendar, a respected name, and a quiet feeling she almost didn’t say out loud —...
How to Raise Your Prices Without Losing Clients
“I hung up angry with myself. I wish I’d just been more firm about my price.” A client said that to me minutes after quoting a fee over the phone — a fee she had already discounted before the other person said a single word. If you’ve ever done...
Career Change in Midlife: “I Want Something Different”
“After nine years of running my business, I just know I want something different. I’m still figuring out what.” A client said that to me in a coaching conversation — an accomplished business owner, respected in her field, nearly a decade into a...
What to do in Burnout
Here is a friendly reminder not to make large business or life changing decisions when in grief or burnout...Recently I was in burnout for so long that I got to a point where I couldn't even hold any new information...I couldn't remember things, I was misinterpreting...
Real Talk about Step-Parenting Interview
Today’s blog is a rare insight and brief touch on my own journey, as a step-child, and as a step-mom. This is a significant part of my life, but it has never received such in-depth public discussion before, and I hope you find it valuable. But before you listen, I...